Empowered Separation Mediation
Private Financial Divorce Mediation for
those ready to move forward thoughtfully.
Empowered Separation Mediation
Private Financial Divorce Mediation for
those ready to move forward thoughtfully.
Private Financial Divorce Mediation for
those ready to move forward thoughtfully.
Private Financial Divorce Mediation for
those ready to move forward thoughtfully.

Divorce mediation works best when decisions are informed—not rushed, emotional, or incomplete.
Empowered Separation offers couples a refined mediation process guided by a Family Financial Settlement Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®—bringing financial clarity to the center of the conversation, where it belongs.
This is mediation designed for couples who value privacy, dignity, and thoughtful resolution—and who understand that financially sound agreements require more than compromise alone.
What Is Empowered Separation?
Empowered Separation is a private, structured mediation experience for spouses who want to resolve financial and practical matters with neutrality, clarity, and respect—before engaging attorneys for formal drafting.
In a confidential, problem-solving environment, you’ll work together to:
Our role is not to advocate for either spouse, provide legal advice, or draft legal documents. We are not attorneys.
Instead, we serve as a financially informed neutral, helping both of you build a shared understanding of your options and arrive at agreements you can stand behind.
You will leave the mediation process with a clear, written Memorandum of Understanding (MOU)—a detailed summary of the terms you’ve agreed upon. This document becomes the blueprint each of you can take to your respective legal counsel to formalize into a binding settlement.

Mediation in North Carolina: What to Expect—and What to Know
Mediation is one of the most effective ways for spouses to resolve divorce with privacy, control, and reduced conflict. It is equally important to understand what mediation is—and what it is not.
Under North Carolina law and professional mediation standards, mediators are prohibited from:
What mediation can do—when guided properly—is help you reach well-informed agreements.
At Empowered Separation, mediation results in a comprehensive Memorandum of Understanding that reflects the decisions reached together. Many clients then choose to engage their attorneys after mediation, using the MOU to efficiently draft and finalize legal documents—often saving significant time, cost, and emotional strain.
A Thoughtful Alternative to Adversarial Divorce
Empowered Separation is not designed for couples seeking shortcuts or quick fixes. It is for those who want:
This is mediation as it was meant to be: informed, intentional, and future-focused.

In Empowered Separation, transparency isn’t a courtesy—it is the cornerstone. Every fact, every figure, every asset is brought into the light and reviewed. Both parties have equal access to the same information, ensuring decisions are informed, balanced, and free from hidden surprises. This elevated level of clarity transforms uncertainty into confidence.

Divorce is more than dividing what exists today—it’s about protecting tomorrow. With our specialized divorce financial planning expertise, we guide you through both the immediate and long-term implications of your decisions. From cash flow to asset division, you’ll gain insight into how each choice shapes your financial future.

For couples who choose to part ways, consensus is not about compromise—it is about resolution with dignity. Empowered Separation provides a safe space for spouses to reach agreements that are fair, sustainable, and focused on the well-being of the family. The result is more than an amicable settlement; it is a thoughtfully crafted financial division.
Mediation is a private process where a neutral third person called a mediator helps the parties discuss and try to resolve the dispute. The parties have the opportunity to describe the issues, discuss their interests, understandings, and feelings; provide each other with information and explore ideas for the resolution of the dispute. While courts can mandate that certain cases go to mediation, the process remains "voluntary" in that the parties are not required to come to agreement. The mediator does not have the power to make a decision for the parties, but can help the parties find a resolution that is mutually acceptable. The only people who can resolve the dispute in mediation are the parties themselves.




Specializing in Financial Divorce Mediation
Cary, NC
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